Today a great article by Leland Carina about Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities (CARAS) was posted to Leatherati.com. I sit on the Board of CARAS and it’s an organization near and dear to my heart. Please read Leland’s article to find out a bit more about CARAS and the great work it does.

Recently I was reading Joe Robinson’s book Don’t Miss Your Life: Find More Joy and Fulfillment Now and it struck me that something he wrote about pertained to my thoughts lately about public BDSM play parties. (For those not familiar with such parties, they are held all over the United States and Europe and kinky […]

Well, Guy Baldwin has done it again. Much as he did with his recent Leather Leadership Conference keynote address, Guy’s thoughtful and articulate keynote before the crowd at the 2011 National Leather Association’s Spring Iniquity conference in Houston, Texas caused a bit of a stir. Perhaps more than a bit. The theme for the conference […]

I just stumbled upon this old interview I did years ago for The Leather Report, a kinky television show that broadcast out of Los Angeles. Thanks to the Leather Archives and Museum for uploading this. I hadn’t seen it in a while.

“Lao-tsu might say that a truth is a truth until you organize it, and then it becomes a lie. Why? Because the purposes of the organization begin to take precedence over that which it first attempted to keep in order.” Dr. Wayne W. Dyer from Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of […]

In my left ear lobe is the only permanent piercing I have on my body. I wear a stainless steel ring in that piercing and have for so many years I honestly can’t remember ever taking it out. That piercing was done by Jim Ward, the father of the modern piercing movement. I cherish that […]

Earlier this week I was having a conversation with a good friend. During our chat, he mentioned something that I suddenly realized I had heard from many other people lately, particularly kinky gay men. What my friend told me was that he has concerns that in spite of his many years as an active and […]

A friend forwarded to me a 9gag.com link that you can see here. I found it quite amusing. Perhaps you will too. I reproduced the graphic below. I think it’s self-explanatory. Enjoy.

Over the past few years I’ve heard a rather constant stream of discontent from kinky gay men who feel that their bars are disappearing. The popularity of the leather bar, as they’ve typically been referred to, seems to be waning. In city after city I hear of the closing of, or lack of business in, […]

I had one of those “a-ha” moments recently when I was chatting with my friend, Hugh Russell, the current International LeatherSIR 2010. I consider Hugh one of the great thought leaders right now amidst the ranks of the sexually and relationship adventurous, especially because he so proudly represents the play and sexual aspects of the […]